Last year, when Lizzy turned 4, we had a big party. We're very fortunate, because we have lots of neighbor friends, school friends, old friends, and family. We love all of them, and it's always so fun to see everyone, so we invited everyone to the party. It was crazy! Kids running all around, a blazing hot afternoon, total chaos. I could barely find Lizzy, amidst the chaos of running around filling drinks, and supervising kids, I couldn't even keep track of the birthday girl. I found her in the back of the house, away from it all, coloring quietly, peacefully, by herself. I got the message loud and clear. A birthday is meant to celebrate one person, take a moment to focus on them, what they enjoy, and what is important to that person. If we wanted to reconnect with friends, we could have our own party on a separate date. No more crazy parties for me.
This year, Lizzy took a real interest in planning things. We talked about what special friends she wanted to invite, and decided to keep it down to just a small group. Lizzy wanted to have a tea party, do an art project, and have a treasure hunt. We decided to have the party at a local park. Lizzy and I worked together to find a darling tea set, decide what the project should be, and create all the finishing touches. It was perfect! We were so fortunate to have a gorgeous day, with special friends and family, and really enjoy one another and celebrate Lizzy. Everyone loved being outside and it was a wonderful day. It felt sweet, and simple, and just right. Happy Birthday, dear Lizzy!
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